Don’t See How People Can Call Me Unattractive..?
Forgive me for having a bitter attitude but I can’t see how people are right thinking im unattractive when i look after my body im short slim, toned, small perky breasts and work out a lot. Yet girls who are classed as overweight in general are seen as more attractive than me and get the male attention. I got rated the least attractive in the class for facial attraction (got mainly 4’s out of 10’s) and I dated a guy but gently broke up with him and he responded by insulting me. He said he must be ugly if he ‘couldn’t even start with me’ and posted on an internet forum that he was worried he was very ugly because he dated a girl (meaning me) and she wasn’t exactly the best of looking. He said he lowered his standards and gave me a chance cause he liked my personality but still got rejected. He still wants to be friends though and apologised for ‘being an a**hole’
It just gets to me don’t see whats wrong with my face but people obviously see me as bad looking but I don’t see how they have the right to think im unattractive when I have a toned petite body and small breasts which can’t sag when im older lol. I might have a bad face but the face is only like 10% of a person lol. With the guy I dated I wanted to stick up for myself and felt like retaliating I could have thought of loads of things about his appearance that I didn’t like but its just not me and i wanted to try and be the bigger one by ignoring it all and not letting him think he’s affecting me.
Ive noticed im starting to think in nasty ways though, like if I see a guy all over a girl I think why is she better than me just cause she has long hair, big breasts and wears make up.
Even my mum said ‘just cause your not the prettiest doesn’t mean a guy won’t like your personality’ and my dad said that he was nicer than me when he was younger lol but ive always been happy with my face.
Hmn…
Your question makes me curious to look at you in person:))
I personally disagree with the first answer that has been posted to this question.. The reason behind that is because people have different tastes and also because we shouldn’t judge by our appearance..
The first answer says that you were abit narcissist from reading few lines from your question.. But I think that you were abit confident to your appearance than being proud and cocky.. You don’t have to lie about your appearance but trust in your personality and believe that there are many people who are going to love you for having a lovely personality.
The get depressed from hearing that you’re unattractive.. Because WHO gives a damn!! Pretty people might seem lucky but not really when they are cocky and proud as a rabbit!! People hate arrogance!
At the end of the day, make sure to spread the fragrance of your nice personality to those who calls you unattractive, as they will change their mind very soon..
Besides, God looks at the heart than the outward appearance..
Hope it helped:))
Hey, just put a bag on your head and take off your top. No more problems, right?
Maybe you are pretty but this statement,
“I can’t see how people are right thinking im unattractive when i look after my body im short slim, toned, small perky breasts and work out a lot. Yet girls who are classed as overweight in general are seen as more attractive than me and get the male attention.”
implies to me that you a narcissist which is one of the least attractive traits a person can have.
Post a picture on here?
The guy was probably just angry because you broke up with him, at least he has apologised for his behaviour and said you have a nice personality, but looks isnt everything.
I agree with the person above who just said the comment was being narccism, overweight people also have great personalities you know…
Maybe youre pretty
Maybe youre not
Just get on with life, you dont need to understand why they dont like you
Oh wow you’re short? Do you want a cookie? Men like tall girls, long legs, get it? Your little petite body, maybe you’re toned, but that’s more like a little girls body. Your body is not a womans body. That is the problem.